What I learned from my Pastor (Pastor Mike at Calvary Chapel PSL) today about “How to have a Love Life” include the following imperatives, which are drawn from the book of Romans 12:9-21:

1. Be genuine with others.

2. Be respectful to others.

3. Be an example of spiritual fervency to other people.

4. Love strangers.

5. Give to others in their time of need.

6. Show sympathy to others.

7. Don’t be arrogant around people.

8. Do good to others and overcome evil with good.

If I may summarize these eight points in one single sentence, it will be something like this:

What is love?

Love is to see others in ourselves and   ourselves in others.